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Finally done with house chores, cleaned up and had my brunch. Now I'm totally free to blog my fill. Its really not fun staying home all day, month, and year............. waiting for some sort of admission list to be posted online and know your fate.............if you would be furthering your Law degree or have to sit home for another year waiting for the almighty Nigeria Law School to attend to your application for the compulsory 1 year study to award you the BL (Barrister-at-Law). 

Hmmmmm........ Yesterday I started blogging on the issue of marrying someone beneath your standard. My facebook friends were very opinionated and interesting. I am sure you have read through and am still waiting for you to drop your comment. If you find this interesting just click the share link icon on my behalf and I'ld be most greatful.

Now, my blackberry contact were roused by me to join in an intense discussion on this topic, and I was very enlightened. It hurt me this morning when I found out I did not turn on the save chat history on my device, which cost me most of my intelligent contributions. However, some comments did not wipe off and you would be graced with reading and making your observations.

Skido my very own coursemate was very African in his comment. He wrote 'As a man, I'm d head of d house. Guess d bone of contention shuld be d HEAD. Buh if I'm d woman, makin som1 below my standard MIGHT affect my regards for him, d "HEAD" in d long run'. 

 Ada Kadashian my secondary school classmate and an educationist had this to say 'In dis modern era,its just few ladies dat get married 2 men with no edu qualification,am nt saying dey don't do well compared 2 peeps dat hv phd etc,but dey are few,I just cant find myself dating such people,it has nutin 2 do with discrimination,its just my choice.

 Chidoe Ogbuana wrote that this issue could even cause resentments as a result of inferiority complex by the on the man's side. I have seen it happen...whatever the lady says...the man will see it from the perspective of "...because you go school abi?"Money can attract...but can it sustain the attraction for a good number of years?No doubt "quid rules the world - women and churches inclusive" but am more interested in the sustainability of the union.

 Da Lovely wrote don't rili knw were 2 come in buh 4 me standard is wot we can achieve,no one wz born with those standard. Meaning that u change life positively wit ur own standard. 

 Kachi's view was 'If I love my wife,even if she's an NCE holder,I won't insult her nor disgrace her before a third party. I will take d responsibility to mould her a woman of my dream " and he had a quick reply from Chidoe jst that some people prefer for you to take them as they are....to molding them to what u want. "From experience, its very hard to teach someone you're in love with" Most see it as humiliation...a way of telling them you're better" 

 Chidoe still commenting 'If he/she is not ok for now, then maybe u have to think again or be ready to compromise......in reply UrchSparkles said Compromising is such an uneasy feat to accomplish. I can't imagine marrying some1 who won't knw when am sharing a joke as it ought to be. Chai! Its totally going to be a very boring union. Even as I dey to marry 1st class man dey fear me, based on the intellectual discussion ild av to be able to match. Chidoe;Most see it as humiliation...a way of telling them you're better. UrchSparkles replied Yea! Dats d issue. They won't ever want to be ridiculed cos dats wat they would see it as. Its best u marry some1 who appreciate words u utter dan 1 who finds it difficult to engage u an ur frnds in intelligible conversation

Chris Yes I can marry her and bring her to the standard I want her to be. That a man dsnt also have 'wealth' dosnt also min he can not strive to make u as cmfortable as u can be . That a man is not educated deos nt min that he does nt have natural wisdom dat he can use to pilot the affairs of his family. I knw wt she may be lacking is education wich if I want I can take kia of.

Hmmmmm. It really was interesting. I just wished you could read the entire conversation, but sadly na my 'device' cause am.